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`Damn 2017~

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THE TIME OF THE YEAR.  What did 2017 teach you? Has it taught you anything at all? Because for me, it surely has. 2017 taught me greatly and here are the lessons I learned from this year: ~You cannot control everything.  No matter how badly you want to have control over everything, you just can't. You will never control everything in your life, BUT you can control how you react to it - and that will surely make a big difference.  ~You can only wish good for your friends; it's only they who can wish what's best for them.  It's their life - their choices, their decision. You cannot dictate how they'll live their life; you can only influence them.  ~You cannot blame others for who you are. Every action you make and every word you speak reflect on you and you should take responsibility for them. Your shortcomings are your deeds and yours only; it's not right to shift blame. Man up and own your mistakes.  ~You can either KISS o...

Despite Being Good

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I once read something, "You can never go wrong with kindness."  You can be doubtful, especially if you have been treated badly by others despite being good to them.  "Do I deserve this?" I know you already asked yourself this for once.  I know you have also reached the point where you just want to be like them - cruel... selfish... and unkind. But you won't, even you can. Uhh, wrong! You won't because you can't.  You cannot be like them. You cannot be as cruel as them, because if you will be - then you are going to be someone you are not. You cannot be as selfish as them, because if you will be - then you are just someone pretending to be someone else. You cannot be as unkind as them, because if you will be - then you are not YOU anymore.  Yes, you wish to be like them just because you got tired and want to alter your situation. You got tired being taken for granted. You got tired fixing things other people have broken.You got tired giving when...